coffee

Emma and I have not been out on any more dates since the last date I told you about in my last blog entry. She had to go away for business to California for a month. Usually her brother handles these road trips but he is in the hospital so he couldn't go and she had to. We have been chatting on MSN and I think she is a really sweet girl but we have already ran out of things to talk about and that is not a good sign. We will see what happens when she gets back. She will be back in a week from now and I am going to get her to either come over to my place or I am going to go over there. I really want to bang her and I won't be taking her out to any public places. I am done with that action it is time to get up close and personal if you know what I mean. I am pretty sure she is going to be really into me because she says she is on MSN but I just don't know if she is the right one for me. The good thing is that I am still talking to a bunch of other girls. I have been keeping my irons in the fire.

There is another girl that I like named Stacey and she is 26. I went out with her on Sunday that just passed. I told her to meet me at this cool coffee place called Empire Coffee here in Houston around 4pm. I got there like five minutes to four and she wasn't there. The place was packed so I grabbed a coffee and found a nice table to sit at. There wasn't much left to choose from but I got lucky because a couple was just getting ready to leave and I snagged the table from them one time. I was sipping on my coffee and watching people come in and our of the place. I was starting to get worried that I had been stood up but finally at 4:15 she came in and stood by the entrance looking around. She was very attractive and I felt kind of lucky that I was the one she was looking for. I sat there watching her slowly look around the room and then finally we made eye contact and she came over and gave me a hug hello. Anytime you have a girl give you a hug hello that you have never met before, I think it says a lot about how open of a person they are.

We sat and drank coffee for a few hours and she was really easy to talk to and she was good about maintaining eye contact. I can not stand women that are too insecure to make eye contact. We chatted for what felt like many hours and around 6pm I was hungry as hell so I asked her if she wanted to head over to a pub and grab some food and some beers. She said yes so we hopped in a taxi and headed over to this pub called Firkin & Phoenix Restaurant & Pub. It is your standard pub with all the usual stuff. We grabbed a seat and ordered a pitcher of beer and 3 different flavors of wings. She said she loved wings so I said fuck it and ordered 3 batches of them all different flavors. We ate the wings and drank the beer and we were having a great time when all of a sudden a fight broke out that turned into a brawl. We both stood up and it just seemed to get crazier and crazier. The staff was involved in it too so we just through some money on the table for our bill and got the hell out of there. We were outside waiting for a taxi when somehow we ended up kissing. The taxi dropped her off at home, then I went home. I have been chatting with her online since then and she wants to get together again this weekend.

Geez has it really been 13 days since my last post? Sorry about that, will try and not have such big gaps from now on. I have been messaging the Serbian girl for the last 5 days and she still hasn't responded yet. I'm not complaining, I mean I had a great time and she wasn't really my type for a long term relationship and besides I dunno if I even want a long term relationship cuz I am really enjoying being single and getting to taste all different kinds of girls. I think that variety is the spice of life and the "spice is life" according to Maud'Dib. If you don't know wtf I am talking about just google "Dune" and you will figure it out. The strange scent of a new woman is what the devil promised in that movie with Keanu Reeves, I forget what it's called but on a side note, I watched Point Break the other night to pay homage to the recently deceased Patrick Swayze, RIP my friend.

Anyhoooooo... let me tell you about last Saturday because it was a pretty wild and unpredictable night. I decided to take out this white girl named Melissa who works as a receptionist for a medical software company. They make the software that doctors and dentists use - pretty boring stuff in my opinion. So I take her out to a nice restaurant called Arturo's Uptown Italiano which is a kickass Italian joint in the uptown area. Everything was cool, we had dinner, drinks, talked about each other, our likes and dislikes, turn ons and turn offs. Yeah things got pretty sexual pretty quick and this girl was hella perving on me the whole night and I was like damn this shit is too easy, I wonder how many other dudes this girl has been with and I better make sure I don't catch no STD'd from this girl. After dinner she wanted to go dancing so we hit up a club called "Blur Bar". We were both in our 30's and the place was filled with young people in their early twenties mainly but I didn't care because I just wanted to give this girl what she wanted which was night of dancing and reckless abandonment.

We were slamming back shooters and drinking beers while we danced the night away. About 1am is when the shenanigans started. Some Hispanic looking greasing dude started like grinding up against my date and I was like wtf is this shit really happening?? He was with 2 other Hispanic greasy guys and I was of course solo with my date. I walked over and put my arm in between him and her and give him a look like back off this is my girl. He started yelling some shit in god knows what language and was positioning himself to take a shot at me, or at least so it appeared that way. I was standing there thinking god damn is this mofo posturing to take a swing at me?? I didn't want to get hit first so I just hit him as hard as humanly possible and it landed square on his jaw. He crumpled to the ground like a sack of potatoes and I turned to face his 2 friends perfectly prepared to deal with the onslaught of fists that were about to come... instead they just looked horrified and tended to their fallen comrade. Two bouncers rushed over and then the next thing I know there were 5 bouncers there separating people and dealing with the situation. They grabbed the 3 Hispanic guys and dragged them to the front doors of the club. Then one of the bouncers grabbed me by the air and leaned in and said that I could stay, it was no problem and that he himself couldn't stand greasy ass hispanics and that it was fun to watch me knock the guy out and said that it was an impressive punch.

We kept on dancing in the club but I felt slightly uncomfortable like I could get jumped at any second that perhaps these guys had some other friends in the club still waiting to make their move. We left shortly after that and went to a coffee shop to just chill and talk a bit before we headed home. She was really horny I could tell, and was saying that she had never had someone fight over her or protect her like that and she was hella getting off on it. I decided to get out of the coffee shop and just told her "we are going to my place" and smiled. She grabbed my arm and we left. When I woke up the next morning, she was already gone... left a note saying that she had to go to work early and apologized for leaving the door unlocked on her way out. Luckily I live in a nice secure upscale building and no one came in while I was sleeping etc.

I messaged her the next day and she said she had a great time and that we should do it again sometime soon. I am not really sure what to make of things, not sure if she just wanted a good time or if she was really into me and potentially wanted a relationship. Time will tell.