Houston Date Blog

Last Sunday I went on my surprise date with Crystal. She actually sent me a message on Sunday morning to bring some workout type of clothes and a change of clothes. I was like wtf ok. So I drove to her place and met her. I left my car at her apartment and then we left in her car for our unknown destination. I have to say I was very excited and happy to be with a girl who was prepared to take initiative like this in terms of planning a date and thinking ahead etc vs most girls who usually sit back and let the man do all the planning and work when it comes to going on dates.

So we arrive at this indoor rock climbing place and I was damn so this is how she stays so fit and fine cuz I have seen people on tv do rock climbing inside and it looks hard as hell. I was very nervous and I was thinking I better do well at this or she is going to think I am a loser. I felt like it was a test that she was putting me through and I wanted to ace the test and reap the rewards later. So we go in there and she walks up to the counter and this guy Chad who works there is like "hey crystal what's up girl?" and I was like ahh she knows everyone. So she introduces me to him and then he gives me a crash course in climbing and was like don't worry if you have any problems just ask Crystal cuz she is an expert climber and I was like damn really sweet. She told me as we were getting prepared about all the different countries she has traveled to for climbing outdoor massive mountains. I was very impressed and I have never met such a smoking hot chick that is also this fierce. She suggested I start out on the noobie wall but being the kind of competitive guy that I am I was like no way let me try the wall that you do. I asked her to go first and show me how it's done and show me the line she was going to use to climb the wall. So I just stood there and watched her scale up this wall in like 2 minutes like freakin Spiderwoman or something. By the way her ass looked great in that harness.

So now it was my turn and I have to say that things started out ok, but once I got like half way up I was having a hard time with one transition and she was like telling me what to do and it wasn't working so I just came back down and then she went back up and showed me that one particular part and how you have to swing your foot up to get the next footing or whatever you call it. Then she came back down and I tried it again. That same spot I got stuck on, I got stuck on again but after a few attempts I was able to successfully swing my foot up and get to the next footing and eventually I found my way all the way to the top and I was quite proud of me and so was Crystal and I definitely felt like I earned a bunch of brownie points with her.

After that we drove back to her place and we both took a shower and got cleaned up and changed into our other clothes. She has two bathrooms so I used one and she used the other. It was kind of weird and I was thinking about her the whole time I was in the shower and I was wondering if she was thinking the same thing. How close we are to being naked beside each other and yet how far apart. We had a drink at her place and then she called a taxi and we left for the restaurant.

We arrived at a place called Artista Restaurant and we just sat down and we both couldn't help smiling at each other. She has like perfect white teeth and might just be the hottest girl I have ever spent time with. I was anxious to get into bed with her and I was kind of hoping that after the club I would end up spending the night at her place because the plan was to go to a club after dinner. We ordered dinner, had a few more drinks and were just talking about various things that people talk about when they are first getting to know each other. Somehow the conversation switched to sex and we started asking each other what we liked and don't like in bed. She said she really loves to get oral sex and I nearly jizzed in my pants. I said well, I really like to give oral sex, then there was a huge pause then I turned and sid "check please" and she bursted out laughing. Thing is, I wasn't joking, we grabbed the bill and as the waiter was running my credit card, I said to her "do you really want to go to a club, or would you prefer to just go back to your place?" She said, no I don't want to go to a club, let's go to my place".

I kissed her for the entire 10 minute car ride to her place. We went into her place and she poured me a drink and we sat on the couch sipping our drinks, kissing etc. Eventually I just stood up and reached my hand out and she grabbed my hand and I said "show me your bedroom" and she lead me by the hand to her bedroom. I started kissing her again, then flung her on the bed. Let me tell you this much, she LOVES to get oral sex, and I had an amazing time giving it to her. She tastes like peaches.

Well it has been a while since my last entry and there has definitely been some cool interesting developments to share with you guys and gals. I got an offer to manage a more upscale restaurant which would mean more money but also more responsibility. I am not sure if it is worth it to switch jobs because what happens if this new upscale restaurant doesn't stay in business very long? Then I will be screwed and out looking for another job. The other thing is that where I work now is very very chilled and relaxed and we don't take things too seriously. If I manage this upscale place then everything is going to be serious because we are going to have wealthy clientele and the atmosphere is going to be much more professional and anal and way less laid back. I am still deciding on what to do, this new place doesn't open for another 60 days so I still have like a week to make my decision.

Out of the 5 super hot model looking girls that I had messaged, I heard back from 3 of them which I was kind of surprised by but I am happy. This morning I went through the online dating site and I managed to find 2 more girls that fit the type of girl I want physically and I sent them messages so we will have to wait and see if either of them reply to me.

So these 3 girls that messaged me back are all really cool and I can see myself being happy with any 3 of them. I know I don't really know each of them very well yet but that doesn't matter to me because physical appearance is very important to me. Call me shallow, call me whatever but that is just the way I am.

I have been on date with one of the girls. Her name is Crystal and I took her to a restaurant here in Houston called Zulu Restaurant. It is one of the best restaurants in the USA I think. I couldn't decide between the veal chop and the rib eye but I decided to go with the veal chop, she got the pan seared salmon. The food and the service was excellent and Crystal looked so damn hot sitting across from me that I felt like a rockstar. We talked about past relationships, our likes and dislikes and it turns out we like the same kind of music and we are both really big into movies which I thought was really cool because my last girlfriend didn't give a shit about music or movies and would always complain when I played my music loud because she didn't like the kind of music I liked which sucked big time as you can probably imagine. After dinner I drove her home and she invited me up. Her condo was really nice and she clearly makes some decent money or got money somehow because her place was really nice - way better than my place. We had a drink and sat and talked on her couch for about 2 hours before I made my move and kissed her. We fooled around for a couple of hours, nothing serious, she was really hot and I was really trying to hold myself back from tearing off her clothes but I wanted to take it slow and not have sex on the first date. It is a rule that I try and stick to, especially if I think I really like the girl and there is the potential there for a relationship. I am going to be seeing her again tomorrow, she wants to take me somewhere and she said it was a surprise, to just come over to her place at 4pm and we will go from there so I will let you all know how that goes

2010 is going to be an awesome year. I am starting fresh with everything in my life. I decided to start exercising big time and also start doing yoga. I haven't actually started yet but I am drawing up plans and I joined a gym. I want to shed some fat and gain some muscle mass so I have been reading these bodybuilding forums and getting together a good workout regimen and also a good diet to follow. The amount of protein I am supposed to be eating is quite high and I am not sure if I can stick to it, but at minimum I should be able to at least lose some weight and get a little more ripped.

None of the girls I met online during 2009 really interest me that much anymore. They are all yesterday's news. I want to focus on 2010 and on meeting the kind of girls that I fantasize about. You know what I am talking about don't you? Most guys end up hooking up and meeting girls that are nothing like the kind of girls they fantasize about when they are alone. So that is what I am going to do.

I am really attracted to girls that look like models. Really lean and tall and thin and classy looking. I am not very big ont he trashy, slutty, skanky type of girl. Lots of my friends go apeshit when they see a slutty looking girl but for me it does nothing. It is the same thing when I get dragged to a strip joint. I get bored and I never get an erection and my friends are going nuts and virtually jizzing in their pants sigh. I don't know what is wrong with them, or maybe it is something that is wrong with me but for me strippers are just a big turn off cuz they are so slutty and skanky and there is nothing left for the imagination. I prefer clothed hot classy females. But anyways...

So I have gone through the online dating site that I joined and looked specifically for women that totally meet my weird ass list of criteria. So far I have found 5 girls and I have messaged all of them. I did this last night so I don't have any messages back yet. I think that most of them are probably at work right now and I know most girls won't be logging into the dating site from work so it's all good. I am looking forward to updating you guys once I hear from them